Sep. 11th, 2018

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spicyratatooie:

spicyratatooie:

do you ever read a post and go like. please join a church instead of subjecting us to this shit

not in a horny sense I mean like please find people to talk to and gain spiritual support from

I joined a temple earlier this year and can attest, being around a group of nice older people who are not absurdly logged on and talk about justice and kindness and stuff on a regular basis is pretty good. I’ve significantly cooled off from several pretty distressing discourses by putting them in the perspective of “if I tried to tell the rabbi about this argument she would be baffled by its byzantine twists and horrified by the lack of compassion on both sides, and also it would not be worth it because there is no reason she would need to know because it just doesn’t matter”. it’s a good way to meet people who have relatively positive outlooks on life and are relatively far away from the worst excesses of community infighting. it’s also nice that religious professionals are often willing to provide you with ethical counsel, and it’s something to do that involves going outside. overall I would rate getting spiritual support instead of getting mad and posting online horseshit 4/5. would recommend for people who are interested.
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enoughtohold:

Well, she’s gone, and
it looks like we are the experts
on death now, Miss Thing,
even though we thought we’d camp
for all eternity.

My dear, I’m sorry, but
you still look fabulous in black.
With all our widowhood,
we must know
more about how to wear mourning
than our mothers learned in that tacky war.

We must know
how to see through the dark
when the light goes out
in yet another sister’s eyes
and how to look behind the lies—
like that perpetual boy in the wedding gown,
flashing a grin at his skull-faced groom.

What we don’t know is
why we are still here dishing,
even though it’s clear
this party’s over and
it looks like a perfect time for us to go.

— Arnie Kantrowitz, in Poets for Life: Seventy-Six Poets Respond to AIDS (1992), ed. Michael Klein.
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I know I’m not necessarily less appearance conscious or beholden to Systems but whenever I see someone talk about how they feel naked without 25 steps of fashion forward makeup in like there are worms in your brain that you got from online makeup artists, I’m begging you get off social media
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hailmaryfullofgrace55675:

I know I’m not necessarily less appearance conscious or beholden to Systems but whenever I see someone talk about how they feel naked without 25 steps of fashion forward makeup in like there are worms in your brain that you got from online makeup artists, I’m begging you get off social media

actually I am less appearance conscious than that. this isn’t like “well I’m self conscious about masculinity so it doesn’t count”, I have a fairly flexible personal style that doesn’t require a lot of daily effort or maintenance. I don’t think it’s morally wrong to have body dysmorphia or dysphoria, or change or conceal one’s appearance, but a lot of people have very, very clearly swallowed the “your natural face is Bad” pill and are viciously replicating it for thousands upon thousands of followers and like they’re victims as well but that doesn’t remove all responsibility. “so scary to think about going out with just six different kinds of makeup on” damn dude if you’ve never seen a therapist about that I would recommend it. by all means continue to use makeup as a coping mechanism if you’ve gotta but like remember that giving into compulsions can seriously strengthen their influence.
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I forgot how fucking great ritalin is. I haven’t been taking it because I need a refill and I didn’t want to quite run out before getting one and I took some today and I just sat crocheting and listening to a podcast for like two hours. I paid attention to the podcast the entire time and the crochet progressed steadily (744 chain stitches, 672 double crochets, and 152 slip stitches by my calculation) and it was just… relaxing. it was nice. I was steadily engaged the entire time. I got up once to do some stretches and just after the end of the third row I got up to take a shower. now I’m gonna try eating some more food. it’s amazing being able to just do what I’m doing.

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