closet-keys: my genuine advice to younger-than-me wlw &

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my genuine advice to younger-than-me wlw & questioning women about sex: it’s supposed to feel good. if it doesn’t, you shouldn’t have to do it. if you don’t enjoy something, you’re allowed to not like it. no matter what it is. even stuff that our culture says is essential to sex. you’re allowed to not like pain or crude language when you have sex, you are allowed to not like penetration, you’re allowed to not like oral or anal, you’re allowed to straight up not like being touched (being a stone top is okay!!!), you’re allowed to like things that most straight people don’t even consider sex but feel good, you’re allowed to like things that most cis people don’t even consider sex but feel good, you’re allowed to have preferences and enjoy sex and decide against sex that doesn’t feel safe and good. there is so much pressure to feel like you should like certain things, and I want you to know that it’s important to find out what you actually do like, not just what you feel like you’re supposed to like. you’re the one living in your body, and you get to decide what feels pleasurable 

war-lesbian: trans lesbian = tresbian = très

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trans lesbian = tresbian = très bien (very good)

kramergate: kramergate: forget wanderlust, sonder, all

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kramergate:

forget wanderlust, sonder, all those words for vague dreamy feelings… what I’m asking for is a concise word for the feeling you get when someone makes an assumption about you that’s 100% correct but you really don’t like that anyone was able to make that assumption. for now I’m calling it a fuckor

“he asked me ‘you main junkrat right’ and a wave of fuckor wracked my feeble body”

sodapickles: thats all guys. thanks

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thats all guys. thanks

the idea that loving men makes you like a woman and loving women makes you like a man (historically.

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the idea that loving men makes you like a woman and loving women makes you like a man (historically quite popular!) is really wild to me bc I’m sooooo used to, in gay nonbinary communities, seeing loving men as moving you into closer proximity to manhood and loving women as moving you into closer proximity to womanhood.